The first question I get when I tell people I homeschool is, “How long will you do that for?” (As long as it works.)
The second question I get is, “How will you teach math?” (Apparently none of us wants to revisit trigonometry.)
And, if people aren’t terrified by the idea of having their kids home forever and teaching them math, they usually come to the question that really matters, “Why?”
So, as this is my first homeschool post, I’ll answer that big question which should be answered first.
I accidentally read a homeschooling book in 2019. I had never intended on homeschooling, I had a 2 year old and a 6 month old, and I bought a book on my Kindle thinking it was about parenting. It was, sort of, but it was about prioritizing what matters by choosing to homeschool. As I read, I could see myself on every page. I had a deep knowing that I was meant to live this way.
I told my husband, “I’m thinking about homeschooling our kids.” I guess I thought he’d shoot me down. I thought he’d likely ask me how I intended to teach math. I had no good answer. (I still don’t.)
Instead, he said, “Thank God.”
We’d never discussed homeschooling before, and I never knew he felt that way. I’m not sure he knew, either. But, when I said it, and he said it, the fate was sealed. We chose to homeschool, because we simply knew it was for us.
If I pick apart the “why” a little bit more, it comes down to different things for each of us. For him, he wants our kids to be independent thinkers.
For me, I want to teach my kids that time is the most valuable currency we have, and we should use it to gain the most valuable resource: relationships. Deep, meaningful relationships take a tremendous amount of simply being there. I felt homeschool would give us more time to be there – to just be in general – and that is worth the little bit of extra work.
For now, as our kids are so young, our curriculum is minimal. We use movement, experiences, travel, and regular conversations to fit some basics into our day.
There are so many challenges, but none of them are insurmountable, and it’s all a learning experience for me as well as my children. I feel myself grow as a person and parent each week.
And there is truly so much beauty. Which is why we call our homeschool project “The Little Beautiful Place.” We hope to instill in our kids a sense of safety, joy, wonder, and responsibility to preserve the beauty of the world.